Life lessons # 1 - All boys are attainable

Me and my girlfriends were just debating if all boys are attainable. My answer: yes. I don't mean to sound cocky but this goes for all girls, all boys are attainable. If you see a guy you like, chances are, if you really work at it, you can get them to be interested in you. It's all about how you play the game. Of course, it all depends on how far you're willing to go. If you have to change a whole lot to get them to like you, chances are, he's not the right guy for you, besides, why would you want someone who likes the fake you? Anyways, the point is, it all depends on how you act, your attitude, the way you dress and ultimatly how you present yourself. There are many different ways of guys and thus there are many different faces a girl can have. we morph, without knowing or not, we morph into what we think they like. why do you think girls wear makeup? or worry about their weight? Anyways, back to the idea that there are many different types of ways to present yourself.

Type one- the girly girl
Chances are the guy you like is a fob. these types of guys like the really cute, innocent and angelic kind of girls. they will have none of that sporty, and laid back kind of girl. this girl must be smart, or atleast come off as smart, pale and really high pitch voice. she must cling on to their arms...clingy? sort of, but don't go overboard. they need to slap the guy's arm and go "WAI AH" when the boy teases them. Also, they have to be stylish...or atleast fob style stylish. this means skinny jeans, some sort of baby doll top or something frilly? dyed hair and minimal makeup. this girl is more cute and pretty then HOT.

Type two- cool and mysterious
This girl must be the total opposite of the girly girl. you'll never know if she likes you or not. she hangs out mostly with guys and is truly a mastermind in playing hard to get. if she likes you, she'll mostly like drop little hints, but not completly give it away. this girl is more likely to be hot then cute. she has style, but you can't quite put a label on her. The way she flirts is by doing little subtle things like maybe give the guy a certain look, or do something a little extra like say hello.

Type three- the all rounded girl
This girl is everywhere. she's acedemically smart, knows how to kick it and will have some other random thing she's into (sports, music, etc.) She can be a flirt. Chances are, the guys who go after these girls are ALSO all rounded aswell. She'll most likely be sporting the newest trends and fads. When this girl spots someone she likes, she may be hesistant to initiate. This girl has many different looks.

Anyways, there are many other types of girls, too many because guys always look for something different. But remember, just because you CAN get a guy, doesn't mean you have to. Never change who you are for some guy...well, never let HIM be the reason for change. Be yourself. For real. No one likes a poser.


p.s. there are of course, certain variables in this theory. AGE is a factor. and there are OF COURSE exceptions.

life lesson #2 - no one likes a whore

some of you may say...well THAT'S OBVIOUS! but is it obvious? is it really? media portrays women being SEXY, SEDUCTIVE,  and well...dare i say...slutty. think about it, who always gets the boy in the middle of the movie or show...the really hot blonde sporting the short skirt and tight tank top..tight in all the right places. but of course she never ends up with him. the classy, more intelligent girl ALWAYS prevails. in life, it's just the same. i have yet to see a man looking for marriage fall for a whore. so if this is true, why are girls dressing down and whoring up? well because guys our age are looking for that...i think? here are a few reasons why girls would become whores:
1. attention
2. attention
3. attention
and....i think that's it. anyways, it's all so temporary. those girls never land a stable relationship..hmm i wonder why? you want to know why guys go to clubs to get girls? because girls at clubs tend to be easy. goes to show what kind of guy that is. What kind of girl would want that type of guy anyways? so i suppose the only people who do like whores...are guys who ONLY want one thing and one thing only. ARE YOU that type of girl?!

life lesson #3- it REALLY is not the end of the world

As hard as it may be to grasp this idea in situations like a breakup, an accident, a failure, it really is not the end of the world. True, it may seem like your life is going horribly wrong...all at once, but you’ll get through it...just like you always have in previous stages of life. My mom and I were just talking about how I’ve been through so much this past year...and I agree, one bad situation after another, and it’s just funny thinking about it now. Yes, I was dumped, yes, I admit I was devastated and heartbroken and teary eyed and completely and utterly pathetic. I’m sure there were times in that situation where thinking about the future was just nuts. Now looking back, it’s nothing! A minor inconvenience and what’s more, something more positive like Growth.  My mom says how can you expect to grow or appreciate the real good things in life when nothing goes wrong. So, next time you find it impossible to get up in the morning and carry on with life, just give it 2 weeks.  Oh, and I say 2 weeks because I usually get over things within 2 weeks. And when I say things..i mean..most likely something like a breakup or a failure.