1. guys who are too persistant and can't get a hint
2. guys who pick fights, it makes you look like an idiot
3. guys who aren't genuine in their compliments yet just seem to be throwing them at you like no tomorrow
4. guys who are too emotional, to be honest, a sensitive guy is nice..but when the guy is crying over mean words...it's not appealing
5. guys who try to hard
6. "gangster" guys- as an uptown girl, I must say I've had my phase of liking the bad boy type, but when you bring them uptown or have a nice meal with them...it just won't work
7. guys who think they're oh so funny and keep going at the joke when the joke is dead
8. guys whose ego and gender biases get in the way of actually accomplishing something like finding directions
9. DEMEANING MEN- like that song "if you like it, put a ring on it" funny thing, it's sung by beyonce.
10. guys who can't appreciate a girl's love for cute things- like my traditions for christmas haha
11. DUMB guys are SO unattractive- i really don't care how cute you are but if you're like kelso from that 70's show, please.

that being said, i could ultimately create a list of things that make MY perfect guy, ready?

1. calls randomly, it truly leaves you wondering and clinging to your cell at all times
2. remembers the little insignificant details that make up me as a whole- like how i love heart stickers, i love markers and i'm practically a child at heart
3. knows what to say to any question that most guys would get in trouble for- like do i look fat in this? or isn't that girl pretty? i'm pretty much asking for the perfect answer to everything
4. MUST be taller then me, it's just one of thos picture perfect couples embedded into my head
5. has to be able to make me laugh until i can't breathe
6. can hold a conversation with me for more then 1 hr, everynight. : D
7. let me do my own thing but at the same time be there for me to run to
8. have the best hugs in the world- you know those face burying ones when you feel like you're in the safest place in the world
9. calls me beautiful even when exam week rolls around and i'm in my sweats, hair up, no makeup and have MAJOR bags under my eyes
10. be the kind of guy who pulls down your shirt when it runs up
11. not notice megan fox, or atleast say you don't, when watching transformers- i know it's a lie!
12. and all the basic stuff a girl wants- cute, not annoying, not ashamed, etc.

jan23:
what i don't understand about miss america is: how can so many of their platforms be about "positive self image to girls everywhere" when they're up there looking super gorgeous? Isn't the point of the positive self image camptagn geared towards girls who may have weight problems? acne problems? financial problems that may cause them to..dare i say..lack in the external layer? how do you "promote that" when you're also promoting girls or ladies who look almost flawless with designer dresses and make up/ hair stylists with you at almost all times of the day? and i know..you're saying miss america also promotes personality and intelligence and all that good stuff that make up a WONDERFUL person. truth is...you don't get that far into the game unless you look good. and when i mean good, i mean...petit, curvy in all the right places, perfect skin, twinkle in the eye female. if ALL females looked like that, then...well..not all females look like that. what was it? like 8 in a billion look like that? something like that. anyyways, yea! and you could say...well girls have the potential to look like that. WRONG! Naturally, some girls will NEVER look like that. now..with some moola, and surgeries (i.e. for us asians, the whole eyelid thing), then yes, you can look like that. Oh yes, that whole asian thing about the eyelids piss me off. ESPECIALLY when people add me into things on facebook about these contact lenses that make your eyes look bigger. Isn't our eyes one of them many special qualities of being asian? what people make fun of is what we should embrace. WELL thats another story. anyways, yea! ...we need real people.

jan24:

a few things that frighten the living crap out of me:
1. things I can't see. For example, airborne diseases, ghosts, "spirits"
2. things unknown. aliens, the deep sea, super natural things
3. death of anyone close to me
4. pigeons. birds. birds of any kind.
5. people who just ain't right. you know? when a wire or two that makes the person a little cooky. like when a sick person enjoys killing people...like ED GEIN. jeepers. whoooooo .

a few things that piss the living crap out of me:
1. people who are inconsiderate.
2. people who are convinced that they are the center of the whole world.
3. little teeny boppers who think they're oh so cool because they get to go out without the parents to a restaurant and not pay tip. ...even though that money was from their parents, and they got dropped off by their parents.
4. people who think their world is out to get them and their life is HORRIBLE.
5. people who skip class and then complain about failing...then they go to the teacher and go.."but missssssssssssss"  in the most annoying voice ever! if you want to pass, come to class. WOW! that rhymes!
6. people who think they're so cool because they can shop lift a lollipop. OH PLEASE! can't spare 40 cents?!
7. when ignorant people say either or a combination of the following:
i. CHAN?! are you jacky chan's daughter?!
ii. chinese people eat dogs. they eat anything.
iii. do you make ipods? tvs? computers?
iv. ching chong ching.
v. chinese people have small eyes. not always. not always.
vi. chinese girls don't have boobs. mmmmhmm. i can testify to that.
vii. when people cough around asians because of the whole SARS thing. WOW.

and you may ask, BUT WHO WOULD SAY THAT? you would be surprised.